{"id":65581,"date":"2024-01-17T10:30:30","date_gmt":"2024-01-17T03:30:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/alternatech.net\/?p=65581"},"modified":"2024-01-17T10:30:30","modified_gmt":"2024-01-17T03:30:30","slug":"the-truth-is-your-boyfriend-is-my","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorevista.com\/the-truth-is-your-boyfriend-is-my\/","title":{"rendered":"The truth is, your boyfriend is my…"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Sister: My wedding is in a month!!!
\nMe: AAAAH, awesome, congratulations!!! But I didn’t know you were even dating someone A week before the wedding, I asked her:
\nMe: “You didn’t forget my invitation, did you?”
\nSister: “Sorry, but you’re not invited…”
\nShe slammed the door and left.
\nOn the wedding day, I get a call from a mutual friend.
\nFriend: “COME HERE RIGHT NOW!”
\nI rushed to the wedding and saw my boyfriend in a wedding tuxedo.
\nMy mom, dad, and the whole family were also there. Sister: “Oh, you came. The truth is, your boyfriend is my husband now…\n

Is it okay to share everything with your partner?\n

If you\u2019re sensible you wouldn\u2019t ? ,
\nThe price of wisdom sometimes is pain. Either you pay the price or the person who shared the wisdom with you already paid it ,
\nYour woman can never get enough of your words . If you\u2019re arguing with someone who relies on emotion instead of logic, you\u2019ll never ever win , even if you\u2019re right ,
\nBoundaries come in here , you\u2019ve the right to privacy . Setting boundaries is difficult but important for peace ,
\nYou can\u2019t fix your partner . You can fix yourself. Nevertheless, one must make a conscious choice to live each day with honour, integrity , perseverance & gratitude in a relationship,
\nMany times we try to do something nice for someone & it turns on wrong . Why ?? What you think someone will appreciate & what that person actually prefers may be totally different. One of the difficulties in every relationship is to understand what\u2019s important for people ,
\nYour pain & frustration in life are not her fault. There has to be difference between privacy & secrecy . You need to stop telling her everything that\u2019s going on in your life,
\nIt\u2019s important to share your inner-world with your partner. We can\u2019t assume they know our thoughts , fears , & dreams but when you start sharing everything, this energy can often spill out in unintentional & displaced ways ,
\nIt\u2019s easy to complain, find flaws , be a pessimist . However , this is not where relationships thrive,
\nJust Chill.!!\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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